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"I have always been insecure that I’m flat-chested. Always padded bras and at times, I use 2 bras. Oh right? But that’s how I cope up, I don’t blame myself for that. I am not ashamed of it either. I don’t lie about it. I even let my girlfriends/acquaintances touch my “armor” (yeah, that’s what I call my brassiere) just to prove to them that it’s fake. Plus it's uneven too. Now, a friend of mine sent me a “bralette” and as a way of giving thanks, I wanted to post a photo wearing it. I couldn’t because it was a see-through bra. So here I am, trying to be a confidently beautiful strong woman!! Hahahaha. This is it!! No bra, no pads, all or nothing BABE!! Nothing to see here, just appreciate the bralette! Hahahahaha! Kidding aside...I crave for people to appreciate their flaws, honestly speaking, even if I am flat-chested, I wouldn’t say it’s bad to my eyes. I may not have some things that other women have but I also know that I have things that other women don’t. We often beat ourselves up for not being perfect, because we compare ourselves to others. Don’t depend on another person’s definition of beauty, learn to appreciate yourself more each day. Stop thinking about what other people think and say. Be your own kind of beautiful." - Sasha Santos

"I consciously start to see my body in a new light and with the kind of ease and insight that can only come from age, I have learnt to accept my flat-chestedness. It was a long journey for me. I just hope girls out there could find the ease in their bodies. Because really, it’s solely entirely yours and no one else should have a say in how it should look to please themselves." - Judy M

"I never thought I’d ever been open about my flat-chest but I guess I’m just so comfortable about it now, that I want to hopefully encourage others to be. Haha, I’m the same with low cut tops, it’s like what’s the worst that could happen, they’ll see a bit of nipple and that’s pretty much it ?? Quite often I don’t wear bras and I love that, it’s so much more comfortable and free! I also have days where I wish they were a bit bigger but it’s more like a passing thought.??" -Daniella Robins

"How I feel about myself is more important than how I look. Feeling confident, being comfortable in your skin – that’s what really makes you beautiful." ~ Bobbi Brown

Sunday, 21 July 2019 00:18

“Step Away from the Mean Girls…

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“Step Away from the Mean Girls……and say bye-bye to feeling bad about your looks. Are you ready to stop colluding with a culture that makes so many of us feel physically inadequate? Say goodbye to your inner critic, and take this pledge to be kinder to yourself and others. This is a call to arms. A call to be gentle, to be forgiving, to be generous with yourself. The next time you look into the mirror, try to let go of the story line that says you're too fat or too sallow, too ashy or too old, your eyes are too small or your nose too big; just look into the mirror and see your face. When the criticism drops away, what you will see then is just you, without judgment, and that is the first step toward transforming your experience of the world.” ― Oprah Winfrey